YOUTH is wasted on the young, as the old phrase goes. One modicum of truth to it is that people are often too self-conscious or afraid of what others think to truly pursue what they want. So many opportunities are wasted because of insecurity, indecision and apathy. But it’s never too late to make a change. Read on to find a number of ways to truly seize the day. Time Life is temporary. We all die eventually. Therefore, what matters most is how much we enjoy our lives, the people we know and love, and the good that we do for and with them. Stop complaining Many people waste so much time complaining about so-called “first-world problems.” If you are reading this article now, you are far more fortunate than many on the earth. Life can be unfair Sometimes bad things happen to good people, and vice versa. Remembering that life isn’t always fair, and trying to maintain a positive mindset is crucial. Fear While fear is a very natural emotion, it doesn’t help us achieve a great deal, and can often thwart our plans to do what we want. Family Friendships and relationships are very important, but they are chosen. Family should be there for you, and vice versa, no matter what. Money While not earning enough for the basic necessities is undoubtedly linked to unhappiness, having colossal amounts of money doesn’t magically make people happy. Don’t try to change people An enormous number of divorces occur due to unrealistic expectations. People think they can change their partner, and then realize that they can’t. Love yourself You are the only one who will ever be you. Therefore, it is important to live the best life you can and treat yourself with love, care and respect. Don’t sleepwalk through life Most people have responsibilities in life, and a lot of daily routines are dull. However, don’t lose years by working in a job you hate and crashing out in front of the TV every night. Self-consciousness Don’t waste your life worrying about what others think about you. The truth is, most people are too busy worrying about their own lives to give you much thought at all. Don’t stop learning The most interesting people in life are always curious. Closed-minded people who think they know everything are usually highly ignorant and objectionable. Know where you want to go This doesn’t mean that you have to have every single detail mapped out. But a clear idea of who, what, and where you want to be will bring great clarity. Save money You never know when that rainy day may come. If it never does, that’s great. But you will be very glad that you put something aside if it does occur. Happiness While we all have bad days, happiness can often be a decision. Don’t look to something or someone to fulfill your happiness though. It has to come from within. Health People can get away with bad health choices, to a certain point. But the sooner you make the decision to eat well, keep hydrated and exercise, the better. Manage expectations People can waste their lives worrying about other people not living up to their expectations. Remember that you only have control over yourself, and your own behavior. Things get better It is important to realize that, no matter what you’re going through, there is a silver lining, and things can and will get better. Everyone can be selfish If you feel utterly disappointed in a person, or even deeply betrayed, remember that we are all capable of being selfish. Try not to dehumanize people. Forgiveness Allowing yourself to forgive is very important for your own peace of mind. Whether it’s somebody else or yourself whom you are forgiving, it will lighten your burden. Ego Don’t take yourself so seriously! Humble and kind people who listen to others are far more appreciated than pompous and bombastic types. Be present in the moment Many of us are so busy rushing around that we forget to take a step back and really absorb our surroundings. Try it, and you will find a sense of great relief. Ask for help Don’t be afraid to turn to your nearest and dearest to ask for help. It will show your vulnerability, but who says that’s a bad thing? You both will appreciate it. Travel Everyone has different timetables and budgets. Whatever your circumstances, try to seize any opportunity that you have to see the world while you can. Have fun There are very serious, hard and sad elements to life. This is undeniable. But it’s important to take some time to let your hair down, laugh, and have fun. Life is short Be aware of your own mortality, without being morbid. Life will end, so don’t settle for anything but the best while you’re here. (SD-Agencies) | 